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Writer's pictureStephanie Kittell

REAL TALK, LADIES!


Stephanie sits in contemplation in the forest, holding a bouquet of flowers.

๐™‡๐™–๐™จ๐™ฉย ๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™œ๐™๐™ฉย ๐™ฉ๐™๐™šย ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ย ๐™›๐™ก๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™™ย ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ย ๐™จ๐™ค๐™ข๐™šย ๐™—๐™š๐™–๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™›๐™ช๐™กย & ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™š๐™ง๐™›๐™ช๐™กย ๐™จ๐™ž๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ง๐™จย ๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™งย ๐™ฌ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™š.


While weโ€™re all walking different paths, our overlapping insights were pretty clearโ€ฆ


๐˜ผ๐™จย ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃย ๐™ค๐™›ย ๐™–ย ๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ฌย ๐™š๐™ง๐™–, ๐™ฌ๐™šย ๐™ซ๐™–๐™ก๐™ช๐™š:


  • Sovereignty

  • Freedom of choice

  • Financial independence

  • Untamed expression of our gifts


๐˜ž๐˜ฆโ€™๐˜ท๐˜ฆย ๐˜จ๐˜ฐ๐˜ตย ๐˜ด๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฆ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จย ๐˜ต๐˜ฐย ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ท๐˜ฆ.


๐˜‰๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ข๐˜ถ๐˜ด๐˜ฆย ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ณย ๐˜จ๐˜ณ๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฐ๐˜ต๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ดย ๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ญ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฏโ€™๐˜ต.


๐˜ผ๐™ฃ๐™™ย ๐™ฎ๐™š๐™ฉ, ๐™ฌ๐™šย ๐™–๐™ง๐™šย ๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™œ๐™œ๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œย ๐™ฉ๐™คย ๐™™๐™คย ๐™ž๐™ฉย ๐™–๐™ก๐™กโ€ฆ


  • Grow our business

  • Put structures in place to support our visions

  • Cultivate an inner sense of safety

  • Remain connected to spirit

  • Show up to hold space

  • Up level our skillsย 

  • AND embrace our intuitive feminine flow


REAL TALK, LADIES:


We often feel a tiring internal imbalance; ๐™ค๐™ช๐™งย ๐™ข๐™–๐™จ๐™˜๐™ช๐™ก๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™šย ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ง๐™œ๐™ฎย ๐™ž๐™ฃย ๐™ค๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง๐™™๐™ง๐™ž๐™ซ๐™š.


We sometimes desire a powerful, purposeful man to hold and support usโ€ฆย 


โ€ฆ While also clinging to our independence and pushing away anyone who gets too close to causing our surrender.


Weโ€™re seeing more clearly the ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™š๐™ง๐™œ๐™ฎย ๐™ก๐™š๐™–๐™ ๐™–๐™œ๐™š๐™จย that suck us dry of our sacred radiance.ย 


And while we will always play and dance and sing and enjoy our sensuality, ๐™ฌ๐™šโ€™๐™ง๐™šย ๐™™๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™šย ๐™›๐™ช๐™˜๐™ ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œย ๐™–๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™™.


Weโ€™re also done with nurturing others at the expense of our own self-betrayal.ย 


๐™’๐™šโ€™๐™ง๐™šย ๐™ก๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™ฃ๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œย ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌย ๐™ฉ๐™คย ๐™ช๐™ฃ๐™–๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ก๐™ค๐™œ๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™˜๐™–๐™ก๐™ก๐™ฎย ๐™ฅ๐™ง๐™ž๐™ค๐™ง๐™ž๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ฏ๐™šย ๐™ฉ๐™๐™šย ๐™ฉ๐™š๐™ฃ๐™™๐™š๐™งย ๐™˜๐™–๐™ง๐™šย ๐™ค๐™›ย ๐™ค๐™ช๐™งย ๐™ค๐™ฌ๐™ฃย ๐™—๐™ค๐™™๐™ž๐™š๐™จ, ๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™™๐™จย ๐™–๐™ฃ๐™™ย ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™ฉ๐™จโ€ฆ


โ€ฆeven though it might mean pausing the flow of business, saying no to lucrative opportunities, expressing compassionate and firm boundaries, or turning down a potential romance. Our martyr days are over.


And weโ€™re becoming humble enough to ๐™˜๐™–๐™ก๐™กย ๐™ž๐™ฃย ๐™จ๐™ช๐™ฅ๐™ฅ๐™ค๐™ง๐™ฉย (therapists, mentors, guides, sisterhood).ย 


๐™๐™คย ๐™จ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™š, ๐™ฌ๐™šย ๐™ข๐™ช๐™จ๐™ฉย ๐™ง๐™š๐™ข๐™š๐™ข๐™—๐™š๐™งย ๐™๐™ค๐™ฌย ๐™ฉ๐™คย ๐™›๐™ž๐™ง๐™จ๐™ฉย ๐™จ๐™š๐™ง๐™ซ๐™šย ๐™ค๐™ช๐™ง๐™จ๐™š๐™ก๐™ซ๐™š๐™จ.ย 


Of course, this is just the tip of the iceberg.


โฃ๏ธ๐™‡๐™–๐™™๐™ž๐™š๐™จ, ๐™ข๐™š๐™ฃ, (all genders & preferences) ๐™„โ€™๐™™ย ๐™ก๐™ค๐™ซ๐™šย ๐™ฉ๐™คย ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™งย ๐™›๐™ง๐™ค๐™ขย ๐™ฎ๐™ค๐™ช. ๐™’๐™๐™–๐™ฉย ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™ฉ๐™๐™จย ๐™–๐™ง๐™šย ๐™˜๐™ค๐™ข๐™ž๐™ฃ๐™œย ๐™ฉ๐™๐™ง๐™ค๐™ช๐™œ๐™? (share in the comments or email me)๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿผ

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